TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR REACTIONS
Humanity is changing, and we are part of that change in real, everyday
ways. Each moment gives us a chance to respond differently than we have
before and to drop patterns that honestly never really improved the
quality of our life. It’s not about big dramatic actions, just doing the
simple things we already know but keep overlooking.
If you’re serious about stepping out of the reincarnation cycle, then
this matters. It’s not something that magically happens on its own and
no-one is going to do it for us. The opportunity is right now, but we
have to act. Each person already has what they need to release heavy
energy. It’s a choice. The universe will support you, it will nudge and
open doors, but it won’t carry you or override your free will.
We tend to accept reactions like anger, hatred, or repulsion as just
part of being human, especially when we feel someone else has caused
harm and deserves it. These responses may be common, but they don’t come
from the deeper part of us. Most of us have heard about life’s mirror
and how our reactions show us what is ready to be released. Yet even
with that awareness, it is easy to let the ego step in and justify why
our reactions are reasonable and acceptable. We stay convinced we’re
right.
People may even understand that negative reactions have a dense energy
that limits our expansion but still choose to leave reactions unhandled.
The pull of the ego can be strong enough that we don’t step back and
observe ourselves. We ‘stay inside the reaction’ instead of seeing it as
something asking for attention. These reactions reflect human patterns,
beliefs, and judgments; they are not coming from the spiritual aspect of
who we are. It’s not us supressing our reaction, it’s abot releasing
them.
It is true that strong reactions can sometimes push a person into
positive action, but it’s not an ideal way to live. When change is
driven by emotional charge, we stay tied into the same cycle. A more
evolved way is to see clearly what is needed and respond without the
surge of reaction.
There’s also a more subtle trap on our spiritual path. The ego can shift
from personal grievances into righteous ones, creating the sense that
we’re justified in our behaviour because the cause appears valid. We
might hear of a major crime or act of extreme cruelty and feel a desire
for the person responsible to suffer. Seeking justice is functional, but
the inner hatred or wish for vengeance is still a dense reaction that
keeps us tied into the very energy we’re opposing. Encountering someone
who is unaware or still asleep can trigger mockery, irritation or a
feeling of superiority. That is another form of separation within the
old 3D pattern. The same applies when we notice traits we dislike in
people. If there were no reactions, we’d just observe it. The reaction
points to something in us that is being mirrored back for release.
We might see reports of ecological damage and feel despair or anger at
the systems and people behind it. Even when the concern is genuine, the
emotional charge still drains and entangles us. Being truly awake
doesn’t mean we don’t care, it means we can see it clearly - and we take
whatever action is possible without being pulled into heavy matrix
energy.
Each of these moments is an opportunity to practice detachment. Instead
of us being swept away by the rightness of the anger, we can step back
and recognize that the reaction itself is the indicator of work we still
need to do. When we fail to apply
spiritual basics - we stay in the 3D matrix; make life unpleasant for us
and others; ensure the triggers continue getting stronger and more
frequent; minimize our contribution to the overall light quotient on the
planet; as well as actively limit our shift to a higher frequency of
light.
As we stop letting the ego lead our responses, life no longer has to
present such strong mirrors and painful lessons. By observing rather
than reacting, we move beyond the old patterns and begin to live in a
more natural alignment with life.
Love,
Sandy Stevenson
17.4.26